strawblondefox asked:
I met the love of my life 1 1/2 years ago on an online dating service. We fell in love and get along very well. I consider us as man and wife. I cannot understand though why he still has profiles on at least 4 dating sites that I know of and always looks at the womens profiles on them. He also looks at myspace.com which is pretty much like the dating sites and carigslist personals,(causal encounters, women seeking men, misc romance, women seeking women,) for several different cities. He does not email or talk to them, he just looks. It makes me feel that I am inadequate. We live together and are not married which is very hard for me to handle since I was not raised to believe in that. I feel that is is disrespectful to be searching personal ads while being involved in a relationship. Is this just my insecurity or is there more to this? I would appreciate prompt responses from both ladies and gentlemen on this issue.
Stephanie
